Finding Bi Identity with MTV

From Tila Tequila to Are You the One?

Photo by Chris Benson on Unsplash

In the Fall 2007, I could be found inside my dorm room, A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila playing on my hidden computer screen. I’d left home about a month and a half earlier, a copy of Curve rolled up in my backpack and a pirated season of The L Word downloaded on my laptop. I had one foot in the closet, and one rainbow colored sock peeking out. I…